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Thursday, April 30, 2009

The 8-Year-Old Divorcee

When the Christianists blather on about how "marriage has always been the same for thousands of years," I really would like to whack them over the head with the Bible - which, as every Sunday-school child knows, is chock full of examples of a wide range of marriage practices that would never get approved today in the U. S. - including polygamy, concubines, arranged marriages in which the woman has no say, marriage by conquest in war, and Levirate marriage (insemination by a brother-in-law if a man dies without issue). All these things were done - some of them supposedly at the command of God - not by "heathen" peoples but by the people God thought most highly of.

Just to illustrate the point that marriage has not been and is not always and everywhere "the same," here's a story from Saudi Arabia, by the Associated Press:

An 8-year-old Saudi girl has divorced her middle-aged husband after her father forced her to marry him last year in exchange for about $13,000, her lawyer said Thursday. Saudi Arabia has come under increasing criticism at home and abroad for permitting child marriages. The United States, a close ally of the conservative Muslim kingdom, has called child marriage a "clear and unacceptable" violation of human rights.

The girl was allowed to divorce the 50-year-old man who she married in August after an out-of-court settlement had been reached in the case, said her lawyer, Abdulla al-Jeteli. The exact date of the divorce was not immediately known.

A court in the central Oneiza region previously rejected a request by the girl's mother for a divorce and ruled that the girl would have to wait until she reached puberty to file a petition then.

There are no laws in Saudi Arabia defining the minimum age for marriage. Though a woman's consent is legally required, some marriage officials don't seek it. . . .

One Saudi human rights activist Sohaila Zain al-Abdeen was optimistic that the girl's divorce would help efforts to get a law passed enforcing a minimum marriage age of 18.

"Unfortunately, some fathers trade their daughters," she told The Associated Press. "They are weak people who are sometimes in need of money and forget their roles as parents."

It was not clear if the man received money for the divorce settlement. The man had given the girl's father 50,000 riyals, or about $13,350, as a marriage gift in return for his daughter, the lawyer said.

The 8-year-old girl's marriage was not the only one in the kingdom to receive attention in recent months. Saudi newspapers have highlighted several cases in which young girls were married off to much older men or young boys including a 15-year-old girl whose father, a death-row inmate, married her off to a cell mate.

Saudi Arabia's conservative Muslim clergy have opposed the drive to end child marriages. In January, the kingdom's most senior cleric said it was permissible for 10-year-old girls to marry and those who believe they are too young are doing the girls an injustice. . . .

There are no statistics to show how many marriages involving children are performed in Saudi Arabia every year. Activists say the girls are given away in return for hefty marriage gifts or as a result of long-standing custom in which a father promises his infant daughters and sons to cousins out of a belief that marriage will protect them from illicit relationships.


Ultra Dave said...

In this day and age, what are these people thinking? That seems to me to be child abuse/expolitian. Hang'um by the balls, father and groom both.

Russ Manley said...

Seems unbelievable, doesn't it? But apparently pretty common in those parts.

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