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A gay man's view of the world from down Texas way
C I V I L M A R R I A G E I S A C I V I L R I G H T.A N D N O W I T ' S T H E L A W O F T H E L A N D.
We've come a long way, baby; I just hope I don't live to see the pendulum swing back the other way. But it can and does sometimes, as history has shown many times in many places.
It bugs me when people talk about being on "the right side of history" - that's a misnomer. What they really mean is the right side of the future; but the future is unknown and unknowable. It hasn't happened yet. And there are no guarantees in this universe.
All we can ever know for sure is this little stepping-stone of time we live on - the present. So make the best of it.
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One would have liked to go to a ball, a real ball, just once. Sigh. Alas, my fairy godmother never showed up! Which is just as well, I suppose - my big Texas feet would never have fit into any glass slipper.
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When we hear of silly-ass people in France or wherever agonizing over whether it is "ethical" to use air conditioning in extreme heat, we just laugh. The question here in the Lone Star State is: You want to live or die? It's that simple.
I hope all my truckbuddies are staying cool and comfortable. If you need something to take your mind off the weather, here's an amusing B movie from 1941 made by the Hal Roach studios - they also made the Our Gang comedies in the 1930s.
We like to watch old movies or TV shows during dinner at the kitchen bar; and it seems I have made a convert of M.P., who wasn't quite sure who Zasu Pitts was until I started playing some of her movies. Now he thinks she's swell. See what you think.
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My mom used to pick up a record album from a thrift shop or discount store now and then, and though I never remember her playing any of them, they were exciting to discover as a lonely only child. And what little gay boy wouldn't be entranced by the lush music and the fairy-tale picture on the album?
I played and replayed it countless times over the years. When it had gotten rather scratchy in the mid-1970s, I searched the record stores until I found an 8-track version of the same, which I could play in my car while driving along the blue waters of the beautiful Gulf coast. Fond memories; I hope you fellas enjoy the inspiration of this masterpiece recording too.
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Now somebody has done the research to find out where this photo came from: it was taken in 1953 for an article in Life magazine about the booming Lakewood suburb of Los Angeles. The researcher uses Google Maps and his own video to show what the neighborhood looks like now. A fine job of sleuthing.
May 1st was moving day up north; I never heard of such a thing down south. This article from the Brooklyn Public Library gives the legal and historical background of the event, with some humorous period pieccs about the hustle and bustle. See also this Wikipedia article.
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BTW, David Goodstein, who appears in the first clip, was owner and publisher of The Advocate, which I later subscribed to for several years.
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