Okay, your Head Trucker got on a tear here tonight and couldn't stop. I'm posting most of it after the jump to save space on this page, but maybe somebody will read it and let me know what you think.
I'm a little pooped tonight but hope I can string these quotes into a coherent post here. It's important to understand were we are, where we've been, and where we're going. And by we, I mean not only gays but all Americans.
Sullivan, quoting David Link,
points out the victories this week we should not overlook.
Tuesday was a great day for gay rights everywhere but Maine:
We won voter approval of (1) domestic partnerships in Washington; (2) an anti-discrimination ordinance in Kalamazoo; (3) an openly gay city council president in Detroit; and (4) an openly lesbian mayoral candidate in Houston. That seems to say something about the state of anti-gay prejudice in this country.
I agree with David that public opinion is now decisively inclusive of gay people - on every issue but civil marriage. But even on that last issue, we are now essentially neck and neck in California and Maine, the last two states to have referendums on the matter, and we are over 50 percent in Washington state for domestic partnerships that are identical to civil marriage on a state level, but without the m-word.
Conservative blogger Rod Dreher, though, says we are
barking up the wrong tree:
Unless I'm missing something, in the 31 states in which voters had a say on whether or not gay marriage was going to be the law of the land, they all rejected it. Every single state. Even California, the national bellwether state on liberalizing social trends. Even Maine, in the most liberal region of the country.
You can come up with all kinds of theories about why this is, blaming the voters for being bigots, accuse the churches of playing dirty, whatever. The plain fact is, every single time it's been put to a popular vote (as opposed to allowing a tiny number of elites to vote on it), gay marriage has been a loser. . . .
If the pro-SSM left can't convince people of the rightness of their cause, they're perfectly prepared to see their views imposed from on high. Honestly, folks, I understand the case for same-sex marriage, though I don't agree with it, but look, if you're reduced to having to tell the public that they have no right to be consulted about the radical redefinition of a bedrock social and cultural institution, then you have a big, big problem.
Ah, but here is the crux of the matter. As someone who grew up in the segregated South and remembers it vividly, I can tell you positively that the vast majority of Southerners forty years ago right now, probably 90-something percent in most places, would most certainly have considered segregation a "bedrock social and cultural institution" that absolutely had to be preserved. The races
had to be kept separate. History, custom, law, and even scripture all showed the necessity of it. Tamper with that, and the whole structure of society would collapse into anarchy and barbarism and racial warfare. Seriously.
And besides, after all the fancy talk was done, it always, always, always came down to this remark, and with my own ears I heard it said many a time among the grown-ups:
Yes, but would you want one of them to marry your sister? End of discussion. Nothing could follow that unthinkable, utterly repugnant thought. (Notice how often throughout history the great questions of the day come down to sex in the end.)
Read more of this post after the jump . . . .