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Tuesday, July 4, 2023

Happy 4th!

Kicking off your July 4th with Little Stevie Wonder's first big hit from 1965, which still brings a crowd to its feet after all these years. And it says something about the American dream, if you listen carefully:



Here's wishing a very happy Independence Day to all my friends and truckbuddies.  Regardless of all the screaming and shouting, ranting and raving, there's still a lot to be thankful for in this country, and we should be proud of how far we Americans have come and of all we have achieved in the last 247 years.  Despite all the flaws, faults, and frailties of human nature, it's a magnificent story, seen in perspective and as a whole; and the long-term trend has always been upward, towards a more perfect union, with liberty and justice for all.  We should keep it going that way.

I'm proud to be an American.  Having done the genealogy work and spent several thousand dollars getting records transcribed, I know for a certain fact that my people have been part of the American story since at least 1688, starting back in Maryland and the Old Dominion.  Generation after generation, as decades passed and families moved westward, they played their part in building up this country:  farmers and planters, lawyers and judges, teachers and preachers, surveyors and soldiers, tavern keepers and taxi drivers, fathers and mothers of many children.  As far as I know, they were all honest, God-fearing, hard-working men and women, whether upright Anglicans or backwoods Baptists.  Some were rich and some were poor; one family attended the same church as General Washington and his lady.

Sign at the site of the home of one of my ancestors, who dined at Mount Vernon on at least one occasion, as recorded by Washington in his diary.

Other families were poor, living in log cabins far back in the woods and swamps, so poor that one boy had only a shirt to wear until he was 12 years old, about the time of the Civil War.  Some made music, some were mathematically inclined . . . and I suspect some made mighty good moonshine.  And there is definitely some Cherokee blood in the mix too, which unfortunately has left no written account but which perhaps can be glimpsed in my profile.  Family stories allege that there was also French and Spanish blood somewhere back in time, though I could find no record of such.  And perhaps there was even a drop of African blood - I learned that, contrary to popular belief, it happened even in the best of families way back there, sometimes.

My roots run deep.  Through my research I was able to find all 32 great-great-grandparents, at least their names and dates, going back to about the year 1800 - and their many descendants, scattered between the Potomac and the Rio Grande.  They were all Southerners, from the British Isles, and Protestants, so far as I know.  I say that merely as a statement of fact.  I would have been just as happy to find some French or Spanish, Catholics or Jews, but they were scarce on the ground when I went hunting.  I found a few lines that stretched further back to the late 1600s, but of course they were only a fraction of the whole.  (Ten generations back from me would include over a thousand ancestors:  do the math yourself and see.)  With the internet, it has become relatively easy - though still tedious - to find names and dates nowadays; but sadly, in most cases that's all there is to be found.  One looks at the lists of names and wonders how many untold stories are there, how many boys and girls grew into men and women, laughed and wept and loved, had their day in the sun, and now sleep the long sleep.

Only a few stories have survived the passage of time; and they are quite interesting.  One direct patriot ancestor, possibly of Swiss descent, was wounded in a North Carolina battle in 1776, several months before the Declaration of Independence was signed.   A collateral uncle was a lieutenant in the War of 1812; and half a century later, a collateral cousin was a Confederate general.  A pair of brothers rode with the celebrated Mosby's Rangers, and lived to tell about it.  A more distant girl cousin was the Confederate spy Laura Ratcliffe, who counted both Mosby and J. E. B. Stuart among her admirers.  

Another Virginia cousin, a high-spirited boy of 14, thought it would be great sport to ambush single-handedly a squad of Union soldiers passing by the family homestead en route to the Battle of Manassas.  The result was that the enraged troops promptly went and burned down the house!  The menfolks were all away at the time.  Stupid boy; imagine what his poor mama must have said to him afterwards.  A couple of years later he joined the Confederate Army, lost a leg in some battle, and returned home sadder but wiser.  Eventually, he got an education and in later life was, I think, superintendent of the local schools.

It would have been quite exciting to learn these stories when I was a boy and fascinated with the Civil War, but I knew nothing of all this until I started my genealogical research at the turn of the present century.  And of course, whatever wealth there may have been in the family was swept away by the War; none of it came down to me.  The South lay devastated for a generation afterwards, having paid a very steep and painful price for being on the wrong side of history.  All my grandparents were born in humble circumstances deep in the countryside.  

Let me say clearly here that it was a bloody, futile, senseless war, started for all the wrong reasons, and should never have happened; but once it started, these my kinsmen did what they had to do to defend their homes and families from the Yankee invaders - who often took the opportunity to steal or destroy everything they could, including food supplies, crops, and livestock - the necessities of life.  Civilians suffered greatly.  That's how wars always are; and brave men and women all down through recorded history have done what they needed to do to protect their loved ones and repel the invaders; there is no shame in that.  You would do it too, gentle reader, regardless of the cause.

In the early 20th century, one grandfather delivered the U. S. Mail on horseback through his rural county; the other was a fireman on a steam locomotive.  A generation later, my dad was an Air Force mechanic who was bombed by the Luftwaffe during the Battle of the Bulge.  He came through the war without a scratch, however, and went to college on the G.I. Bill, as millions of other veterans did.  There he met my mother - the result being, eventually, me.

My great-great grandfather, drafted into the Confederate Army in 1862, aged about 36.  Probably this picture was taken shortly before he went off to war.  He died in the Battle of Franklin, Tenn., in December 1864, a few months before the war ended, leaving an impoverished wife and four children back in Mississippi.

My gggrandfather's younger cousin, who rode with Mosby's Rangers - notice the horseshoe emblem on his sleeve.  After the war, he got an M. D, and became a highly respected physician in a small Texas town.

A younger brother of the above.  He also rode with Mosby.

Yet another cousin was General Elkanah Greer, CSA, a wealthy planter in East Texas; at the time of his death in 1877, the Memphis newspaper remembered him as "a gallant soldier and an accomplished gentleman."

These are the kind of men your Head Trucker is descended from, Americans all - both before and after the War.  My forefathers were brave, manly men who did the right thing as it seemed to them at that time - which is all anyone can do in any place or time.  I wish I had inherited their toughness, but . . . I was cut from different cloth.  My Texas uncles and cousins more nearly fit the family pattern.  

So you see, I feel that in my veins flows the great mosaic of American life as it was lived, high and low, since the earliest settlements and peoples.  I am the product of all who came before me; but I should be judged on what I have done in my life, not what they did or didn't do.  Which is the only right way to judge anyone.  To do otherwise would be pre-judging:  prejudice.  That is not the American way.

I say there's way too much blather these days about diversity, and not nearly enough talk about UNITY.  Without which, we have nothing.  And anybody who doesn't like it here is free to go live somewhere else.  Good luck finding another country that will suit you better.  Or just go . . . jump in the lake.

Here's some live cams from around the nation to show that life goes on in America, and not too badly, despite everything that upsets and divides us:  just look at the living mosaic of races, sexes, and ages in these scenes.  Everybody gets a chance.  Everybody gets to dance.  Rich or poor, old or young, gay or straight, everyone has a place in the sun.  That's the American dream.  And it's a good thing.

 Fort Lauderdale Beach:

 

Independence Day Parade in Washington, D. C.:


Fireworks at Disney World: 

 

Fireworks around the USA:

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4 comments:

Frank said...

We come from such different worlds. I can't (or haven't tried) to trace my ancestry further than my great grandparents. Southern Italy was once so forsaken that even "Christ Stopped at Eboli". So my grandparents came to America. And so I guess that is the American dream. They had no history here, but were proud to be called American citizens.

Russ Manley said...

Yes, different worlds, different perspectives through different windows. But God bless your great-grandparents! I think I would find it damn scary to pull up stakes and move to such a different world as they did. They must have been mighty brave and mighty tough people to take a leap into the unknown like that. (I'm guessing they must have had friends or relations already here to help with getting settled - I hope.)

And yes, they were pursuing the "American dream" too - which BTW has gotten way over-hyped in our lifetime. In fact, I don't remember ever hearing the phrase until I was in college. Now it seems to be shorthand for get-rich-quick; but that was surely not the original meaning, whenever it was invented. Most early settlers and colonists just wanted to find a place to bloom and grow in peace and prosperity, without persecution or oppression. Perhaps most still do.

Your ancestors and mine were striving for the same things, essentially - a bigger and better and freer life - and some of mine were just as poor as your Calabrian relations. America historically was very rewarding to folks who trusted in faith and hard work to get ahead - with a little good luck thrown in.

And certainly Italy has added enormous spice and flavor to the American mix! In fact, it's impossible to imagine modern life without "you all." So hurrah for the old folks! They made a good choice.

Davis said...

Fine words on this nation, Russ. Thank you.

I've been doing genealogy since I was a lad, but as time has gone by I've discovered how wrong the stories I was given were. Now I continue to delve into (as a general escape from the realities of old age) it and have folks who fought on both sides of the Late Unpleasantness. A handful of Revolutionary war ancestors and a whole hotch potch of Heinz 57 variety folks!

Russ Manley said...

You're welcome. Interesting to hear that your people were on both sides - perhaps they lived in the border states?

I caught the genealogy bug soon after I got my first home PC at the turn of this century, and worked hard on it for about five years. An endlessly engrossing hobby. Like you, I discovered that memory is treacherous - even my own - and family stories are often flawed.

I'm old & tired and done with all that research now, but I learned what I wanted to know, and some fascinating facts - surprising ones, too. Nothing earth-shaking, but I wish the older generation were still around to share these things with. And I wish I had asked them more questions when I was young!

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