From the
L.A. Times via Towleroad:
I increasingly see organized religion as actually my enemy. They treat me as their enemy. Not all Christians, of course. Not all Jews, not all Muslims. But the leaders. . . . Why should I take the judgment of a declared celibate about my sexual needs? He's basing his judgment on laws that would fit life in the Bronze Age. So if I'm lost to God, organized religion is to blame.
What I say: I always loved church, from the time I was a little boy. But I finally realized, much later than I should have, that I really am
not wanted there. Not as I am - only as a silent, shut-away little boy, sexless and alone.
So I've stopped wishing and hoping to fit in where my presence as a fully human, fully adult, fully sexual man will never be welcomed. But that's cool - God knows where I live, we visit all the time.