From Westminster Abbey, His Majesty the King delivers his annual Christmas message to his peoples in Britain and throughout the Commmonwealth. The King is a deeply spiritual man, befitting his role as Supreme Governor of the Church of England, not to mention his historic title, Defender of the Faith.
Bonus: The Princess of Wales and Princess Charlotte, age 10, perform a piano duet that was filmed for the annual service of carols at Westminster Abbey, which took place on December 5th and was broadcast in the UK on Christmas Eve. The composure of the young princess is most impressive.
Well, fellas, Christmas has come round again, with its timeworn message of peace, goodwill to men. A message this old world desperately needs to hear - but is anyone listening?
As I've been preparing this post, I've tried to think of how to express what Christmas means to me, but my sluggish old man's brain has been slow to respond. However, I happily discovered that I already said those things in this Christmas post from 2022, if anyone cares to read it.
Sadly, Christmas at our house is not as merry and bright as it has been in Christmases past. For one reason or another, none of M.P.'s family are coming to enjoy the usual big Yule feast with us. So no need for all that cooking, baking, and decorating: a single wreath over the fireplace is enough. But M.P. has begun preparations for our smaller Christmas dinner a deux, probably on Sunday, which will feature his luscious Red Cajun Duck, a real bell-ringer. I do wish some of my truckbuddies lived nearer, so we could invite them over for a really festive dinner now and then.
Anyway, I wish all my truckbuddies a very Merry Christmas with the ones they love. Here's one of my favorite Christmas songs in a thrilling a cappella version by Heart that I just now discovered. Crank it up, sit back, and enjoy.
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Bonus: Pope Leo delivers a brilliant and beautiful homily during Midnight Mass at St. Peter's Basilica:
Well, isn't this nice. These handsome fellas have got their pretty little home all decked out bright and gay, and they'd like you come for a sleep-over. I just can't tell you when I last had an offer like that.
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Distinguished journalist Ted Koppel takes us to the town that may have inspired the setting of that wonderful movie.
I think of it not so much as a Christmas movie as an inspirational one. Your Head Trucker saw this film in the student union theater during my first term at a big university, nearly half a century ago. Mine was not the typical college experience: I was broke, friendless, and terribly homesick for a place I could never return to. But the quiet inspiration of Frank Capra'smagnum opus gave me comfort and lit the way ahead; it was the grace of God that I needed in that lonely time. I am still grateful for that.
When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on tight. When you come to the dark tunnel of despair, go through it -- and at the other end, you will find Hope.
Keep on; do what you can. Your life matters more than you know.
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N. B. -- Strange to say, the two guys by the water keg in the thumbnail photo look just like my junior-high phys ed teachers. But they were not friendly, and did no education. They just handed out balls at the beginning of the period and told us to go play, while they sat in their air-conditioned office. In my day, P.E. teaching was just a stepping stone on the way to becoming principals. They took no notice of whether anyone did well or not.
Your Head Trucker was one of the guys who was always last to be chosen for teams, and was routinely mocked and scorned by the other guys. I hated it.
Is it okay to be gay and over 30? A 2008 documentary explores gay attitudes to aging, featuring several notable gay writers and activists. I may add my own thoughts later.
Apparently, the Old Gays were pretty famous on social media a few years back, but your Head Trucker was out of the loop - typical - and just came across some of their vids last week. The first one below was made in January 2019 and has had over 9 million (!) views on YouTube. Here are a few of their videos; I can relate to much of what they say.
Bonus: The group appeared on the Today program in November 2023, plugging their new book:
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace. Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is discord, harmony; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy. Grant that I may seek not so much to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.
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We cannot all do great things, but we can do small things with great love.
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Churches say that the expression of love in a heterosexual monogamous relationship includes the physical, the touching, embracing, kissing, the genital act - the totality of our love makes each of us grow to become increasingly godlike and compassionate. If this is so for the heterosexual, what earthly reason have we to say that it is not the case with the homosexual?
It is a perversion if you say to me that a person chooses to be homosexual. You must be crazy to choose a way of life that exposes you to a kind of hatred. It's like saying you choose to be black in a race-infected society.
If God, as they say, is homophobic, I wouldn't worship that God.