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Tuesday, June 23, 2026

Southern Pride Chicken

Paschal's fried chicken
Fried chicken should look like this with an even coating of golden brown skin.
Photo by David Reber from Paschal's restaurant in Atlanta via Wikipedia.

If you're wondering what to make for Sunday dinner this coming weekend, why not treat yourself to some honest-to-God Southern fried chicken?  I learned how to cook it from my grandmother, and made it a couple of weekends ago for M.P., who raved over it.  I was proud of my chicken, M.P. was proud of me, and it's Pride Month - hence the name.  It's a simple thing, but as all us Southern boys know, the best thing in the world!  Mmm-mm.  I tell you what!

So here is the recipe as my dear old Grandma made it (minus the tenderizer and hot sauce) nearly every Sunday when I was growing up.  Read everything before doing anything.  Enjoy!


SOUTHERN  PRIDE  CHICKEN

by Russ Manley, June 2026

Ingredients:

4 leg quarters, disjointed

(= 4 thighs and 4 drumsticks)

1½  to 2 cups flour

salt and pepper

celery salt

Adolph’s meat tenderizer

Louisiana Hot Sauce™ or cayenne (optional)

2 eggs, beaten to a froth

1½ cups canola oil

¾ cup milk (for gravy)

Allow 2 pieces per serving, depending on age and appetite.

Prep time, about half an hour.  Rest time for chicken, 1-2 hours.  Cooking time, about an hour.

Directions:

1.  Rinse chicken under cold running water and pat dry.  Dust with salt, pepper, and Adolph’s (especially on the meaty parts).  Add a pinch of cayenne or Louisiana Hot Sauce if you like.  Place in 2-quart bowl.  Pour beaten eggs over chicken, and toss chicken pieces to coat completely.  Let sit, loosely covered, for 1 to 2 hours, coming to room temperature.  (Cold chicken dropped in hot oil may not cook evenly.)

2.  Heat oil in 10-inch cast iron skillet over medium-high heat until a pinch of flour thrown in bubbles and sizzles.  (You can use any straight-sided skillet, but not a sauté pan or deep fryer.)

3.  In a paper or plastic bag, combine flour with a teaspoon each of salt and celery salt, and 2 teaspoons of black pepper.  Mix well.  Put in 2 pieces of chicken, close bag, and shake several times to cover chicken with flour.  Then repeat with 2 more pieces. 

3.  Lay chicken pieces carefully in hot oil, skin side down.  Cook on medium-high heat uncovered 10-15 minutes; oil should come up only halfway on the sides of chicken, bubbling vigorously.

4.  Once chicken pieces have browned on the underside (check by lifting one end with a fork, keeping your face away from the hot oil), carefully turn over and cook covered on medium-low 15-20 minutes.  The oil should still be bubbling vigorously around the chicken.  Do not peek; turn only once.

5.  When chicken is golden brown on both sides, remove to drain on paper towels or on a rack; cover to keep warm.  Repeat flouring and frying with the remaining chicken pieces; you may add a half cup more oil to the skillet if need be. 

To make gravy:

1.  To make gravy, pour off all but 2 or 3 tablespoons of oil from the skillet. Add the same amount of flour from the bag you floured the chicken in. Equal parts flour and fat make a paste – a roux – like wet sand, full of bubbles.  Cook, stirring constantly with fork, spoon, or whisk, over medium-high heat for 2 or 3 minutes, or until the roux has browned to the degree you like.  

2.  Then add a drinking glass (about 12 oz. or 1.5 cups) filled with equal parts of milk and water; hold the glass at arm’s length as you pour; it will bubble ferociously, and you should keep stirring for another minute or two until well blended.  The gravy will thicken as it cools.  

(BTW, this is how both my mama and M,P.'s mama made gravy.)

Notes:

The beaten egg is not strictly necessary, but it helps the flour stick to the chicken and brown evenly all around.  There are many possible variations - apparently everybody's grandmother had her own method - but this turned out splendidly:  the head chef, M.P., declared it "Excellent!" and gave me an A+++.  So there.

Properly cooked chicken should have crispy skin and tender meat, neither soggy nor dried out.  The meat should be entirely white, and juices should be clear.  To test, cut through the meat nearest the bone or leg joint.  If any pink meat or juices appear, cook further before serving.  

Best side dishes are mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans or turnip greens, and hot buttered biscuits with honey or syrup.  And iced tea, of course.  Lemon meringue pie or peach cobbler with ice cream will complete a true Southern dinner, simple and delicious!

Disclaimer:

This recipe works well for me in our kitchen, but your results may vary.  

Cook at your own risk. If you are under 18 or afraid of hot oil, or just have no damn sense, forget this recipe and go get some KFC instead. I take no responsibility for any kitchen mishaps or injuries.

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Monday, June 22, 2026

As Boys Grow (1957)

Sixty years ago, I saw this film, or one very like it, in my high-school P. E. class.  Quite well-made for the time.  There was much nervous laughter in the room: the shock of recognition.


Since puberty had already begun for me the previous summer, this was a timely message.  But even more helpful was the book Boys and Sex by Wardell Pomeroy, one of Dr. Kinsey's associates.  It told me everything I needed to know and more, simply and clearly, without moralizing.  A great help to a gay boy just beginning the long, often painful journey of self-discovery in an uncomprehending world.

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Sunday, June 21, 2026

Sunday Drive: Barber, Adagio for Strings

God is light, and in him is no darkness at all.  --I John 1:5

One of your Head Trucker's all-time favorites, which speaks to me of spiritual things.  I would like to have this piece played at my funeral one day.  It is performed here by the Vienna Philharmonic, Gustavo Dudamel conducting, in the gardens of the Schönbrunn Palace on June 20, 2019.

The Adagio was written by American composer Samuel Barber (1910-1981) in 1936; thirty years later, he used the music for his choral arrangement of the Angus Dei.  He was partnered with the composer Gian Carlo Menotti (1911-2007) for more than forty years.

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Friday, June 19, 2026

Waitin' for the Weekend

"Falling Slowly" by Vintage Photomontage. Summer's here - time to strip down and get wet!

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Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Why Young Men Sound Less Manly


Your Head Trucker has noticed in the last several years that many girls and young women have developed the irritating habit of ending every sentence on a higher note - as we normally do when asking a question.  For example:  I live in Boston?  I am majoring in biology?  I want to work in hydroponics?  This is a childish habit born of insecurity, it seems to me:  as if the speaker is asking permission to say something, or unsure if she is saying the right thing.  A careless, highly annoying habit they should have gotten over by third grade.

Recently, I've noticed boys and young men - straight guys - adopting this same rising tone at the enf of their sentences, which is different from the "gay voice" that some gay boys and gay men have.  We know it came from unconsciously imitating the cadence of our mother's voices, and other female relatives; some of us grew out of that, while some embrace it.  To each his own.

Whatever the case may be, grown men and women should speak clearly and confidently, not like shy little kids; that's just my opinion - you can take it or leave it.  But here is Dr. Taylor Jones, a linguist who explains what the research shows about this "unmanly" speech phenomenon.  I don't have the experise in that field either to agree or disagree with him.  See what you think.

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Tuesday, June 16, 2026

Sixteen Going on Seventeen

I'd always wanted to see this delightful scene from The Sound of Music played by a couple of gay men - and whaddaya know, somebody else finally had the same thought.  Here are Andrew Keenan-Bolger and Jay Armstrong Johnson flawlessly performing the scene at the Broadway Backwards benefit in 2017.  Both were about 30 at the time.  Johnson, the taller one, is a Texas native and rather studly, too.  Enjoy.


For comparison, here's the lovely 1965 original, played by Charmian Carr and Daniel Truhitte:


What I Say:  The lyrics don't quite work between two boys, though it's all in good fun.  But I dare say, they wouldn't work between a boy and a girl either, in this modern age.  For a couple of generations now, girls have been raised to be as tough and indpendent as boys.  How well that has succeeded, others may judge.

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Monday, June 15, 2026

God Is Good


Today I just want to share an excerpt from a poem I happened to come across that speaks to me in the midst of this foolish, frantic, fractured, frightful modern world, so cruel and so cynical.

Excerpt from "God Is Good" from Bees in Amber by John Oxenham, 1913.

God has been good to me and M.P. here in our little bungalow, and I am deeply grateful.  Gratitude is one of the secrets of happiness.

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Sunday, June 14, 2026

Sunday Drive: Begin the Beguine

 One of my all-time favorite tunes, from MGM's Broadway Melody of 1940.  Fred Astaire and Eleanor Powell were the top dancers of the time, and it shows.  Consider this:  there is no animation or special effects in this film.  All the music was performed by human beings on real instruments, and all the dancing was done by human beings who rehearsed and rehearsed for weeks on end until every step, every move was perfect. 

Computers hadn't been invented yet - hell, even transistors hadn't been invented.  There was no videotape. either - all that you see was created by light and sound on 35 millimeter film, which had to be bathed in chemicals before it could be projected and viewed.  A great collective work of artists in many fields, in front of and behind the camera.  Human creativity at its peak.  I'm afraid we will never see such a thing again. 

Part 1 is slow and languid as a tropical night:

Part 2 picks up the pace:

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Saturday, June 13, 2026

Trooping the Colour, 2026

The King's Birthday Parade, also known as Trooping the Colour, live from London on what the news commentator says is "a perfect summer day" there - temperature 68 F:


Bonus, 4 p.m.:  It's 93 degrees here Texas on a beautiful sunny afternoon.  English historian Allan Barton, who styles himself The Antiquary, gives an in-depth explanation of the Trooping and its history, if you can stand it:

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Friday, June 12, 2026

Waitin' for the Weekend

"Born in Brazil," a male-nude drawing demonstration by artist Douglas Simonson:

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Wednesday, June 10, 2026

Sandow the Magnificent

Life-size bronze statue of Sandow, taken from plaster casts of his body in 1901.  Better views of the statue can be seen here.

An excellent documentary about the Father of Modern Bodybuilding, whose physique and feats of strength awed the Victorian world:

 

In other places, I have read that he had a longtime male partner the public did not know about, but you'll have to look that up on your own.  It's my nap time here.

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