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A gay man's view of the world from down Texas way
C I V I L M A R R I A G E I S A C I V I L R I G H T.A N D N O W I T ' S T H E L A W O F T H E L A N D.
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| Fried chicken should look like this with an even coating of golden brown skin. Photo by David Reber from Paschal's restaurant in Atlanta via Wikipedia. |
If you're wondering what to make for Sunday dinner this coming weekend, why not treat yourself to some honest-to-God Southern fried chicken? I learned how to cook it from my grandmother, and made it a couple of weekends ago for M.P., who raved over it. I was proud of my chicken, M.P. was proud of me, and it's Pride Month - hence the name. It's a simple thing, but as all us Southern boys know, the best thing in the world! Mmm-mm. I tell you what!
So here is the recipe as my dear Grandma made it (minus the tenderizer and hot sauce) nearly every Sunday when I was growing up. Read everything before doing anything. Enjoy!
SOUTHERN PRIDE CHICKEN
by Russ Manley, June 2026
Ingredients:
4 leg quarters, disjointed
(= 4 thighs and 4 drumsticks)
1½ to 2 cups flour
salt and pepper
celery salt
Adolph’s meat tenderizer
Louisiana Hot Sauce™ or cayenne (optional)
2 eggs, beaten to a froth
1½ to 2 cups canola oil
¾ cup milk (for gravy)
Allow 2 or 3 pieces per serving, depending on age and appetite.
Prep time, about half an hour. Rest time for chicken, 1-2 hours. Cooking time, about an hour.
Directions:
1. Rinse chicken under cold running water and pat dry. Dust with salt, pepper, and Adolph’s (especially on the meaty parts). Add a pinch of cayenne or Louisiana Hot Sauce if you like. Place in 2-quart bowl. Pour beaten eggs over chicken, and toss chicken pieces to coat completely. Let sit, loosely covered, for 1 to 2 hours, coming to room temperature. (Cold chicken dropped in hot oil may not cook evenly.)
2. Heat oil in 10-inch cast iron skillet over medium-high heat until a pinch of flour thrown in bubbles and sizzles. (You can use any straight-sided skillet, but not a sauté pan or deep fryer.)
3. In a paper or plastic bag, combine flour with a teaspoon each of salt and celery salt, and 2 teaspoons of black pepper. Mix well. Put in 2 pieces of chicken, close bag, and shake several times to cover chicken with flour. Then repeat with 2 more pieces.
3. Lay chicken pieces carefully in hot oil, skin side down. Cook on medium-high heat uncovered 10-15 minutes; oil should come up only halfway on the sides of chicken, bubbling vigorously.
4. Once chicken pieces have browned on the underside (check by lifting one end with a fork, keeping your face away from the hot oil), carefully turn over and cook covered on medium-low 15-20 minutes. The oil should still be bubbling vigorously around the chicken. Do not peek; turn only once.
5. When chicken is golden brown on both sides, remove to drain on paper towels or on a rack; cover to keep warm. Repeat flouring and frying with the remaining chicken pieces; you may add a half cup more oil to the skillet if need be.
To make brown gravy:
1. Pour off all but 3 tablespoons of oil from the skillet. Add the same amount of flour from the bag you floured the chicken in. Equal parts flour and fat make a paste – a roux – like wet sand, full of bubbles when heated. Cook, stirring constantly with fork, spoon, or whisk, over medium-high heat for 2 or 3 minutes, or until the roux has browned to the degree you like.
(If the roux smells burnt, it is burnt, so throw it out and start over. Never serve burnt gravy.)
2. Then add a tall drinking glass (about 12 oz. or 1.5 cups) filled with equal parts of milk and water; hold the glass at arm’s length as you pour; it will bubble ferociously, but keep stirring for another minute or two until well blended. The gravy will thicken as it cools.
Notes:
The beaten egg is not strictly necessary, but it helps the flour stick to the chicken and brown evenly all around, as does cooking the pieces in two small batches instead of one. There are many possible variations, but the house chef, M.P., declared this one "Excellent!" and gave me an A+++.
Properly cooked chicken should have crispy skin and tender meat, neither soggy nor dried out. The meat should be entirely white, and juices should be clear. To test, cut through the meat nearest the bone or leg joint. If any pink meat or juices appear, cook further before serving.
Best side dishes are mashed potatoes and gravy, green beans or turnip greens, and hot buttered biscuits with honey or syrup. And iced tea, of course. Lemon meringue pie or peach cobbler with ice cream will complete a true Southern dinner, simple and delicious!
Disclaimer:
This recipe works well for me in our kitchen, but your results may vary.
Assemble all ingredients beforehand, proceed carefully through the steps, and cook at yuur own risk.
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| God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. --I John 1:5 |
The Adagio was written by American composer Samuel Barber (1910-1981) in 1936; thirty years later, he used the music for his choral arrangement of the Angus Dei. He was partnered with the composer Gian Carlo Menotti (1911-2007) for more than forty years.
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Recently, I've noticed boys and young men - straight guys - adopting this same rising tone at the enf of their sentences, which is different from the "gay voice" that some gay boys and gay men have. We know it came from unconsciously imitating the cadence of our mother's voices, and other female relatives; some of us grew out of that, while some embrace it. To each his own.
Whatever the case may be, grown men and women should speak clearly and confidently, not like shy little kids; that's just my opinion - you can take it or leave it. But here is Dr. Taylor Jones, a linguist who explains what the research shows about this "unmanly" speech phenomenon. I don't have the experise in that field either to agree or disagree with him. See what you think.
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For comparison, here's the lovely 1965 original, played by Charmian Carr and Daniel Truhitte:
What I Say: The lyrics don't quite work between two boys, though it's all in good fun. But I dare say, they wouldn't work between a boy and a girl either, in this modern age. For a couple of generations now, girls have been raised to be as tough and indpendent as boys. How well that has succeeded, others may judge.
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Excerpt from "God Is Good" from Bees in Amber by John Oxenham, 1913.
God has been good to me and M.P. here in our little bungalow, and I am deeply grateful. Gratitude is one of the secrets of happiness.-----
One of my all-time favorite tunes, from MGM's Broadway Melody of 1940. Fred Astaire and Eleanor Powell were the top dancers of the time, and it shows. Consider this: there is no animation or special effects in this film. All the music was performed by human beings on real instruments, and all the dancing was done by human beings who rehearsed and rehearsed for weeks on end until every step, every move was perfect.
Computers hadn't been invented yet - hell, even transistors hadn't been invented. There was no videotape. either - all that you see was created by light and sound on 35 millimeter film, which had to be bathed in chemicals before it could be projected and viewed. A great collective work of artists in many fields, in front of and behind the camera. Human creativity at its peak. I'm afraid we will never see such a thing again.
Part 1 is slow and languid as a tropical night:
Part 2 picks up the pace:
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Bonus, 4 p.m.: It's 93 degrees here Texas on a beautiful sunny afternoon. English historian Allan Barton, who styles himself The Antiquary, gives an in-depth explanation of the Trooping and its history, if you can stand it:
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